To whom it may concern

I perceive that you have hurt someone who I love. That is hard for me.

I perceive that you are unrepentant. I have not seen actions which demonstrate that you are sorry for the hurt inflicted.

I acknowledge that my perceptions are my own. Those around me do not share these perceptions, and they are entitled to their own viewpoints. That's fine; I can handle it.

I realize that, if I cannot find a way to give you a second chance, it will hurt some other people who are close to me. I truly want to give you that chance.

You have to earn it.

I will work on me. You, work on you.